Mindset & Personal Growth

The 7 Decisions to Success

If you see yourself as the leader that you are…STOP! See yourself as the leader you can be!

A book I have read a few times now reveals the 7 decisions to becoming successful. The decisions have helped me
everyday in any situation.

This book is “The Traveler”s Gift” written by Andy Andrews.
I strongly recommend that you read this book and any
other book written by Andy Andrew. He’s had an incredible life.

#1. “The Buck Stops Here” – Do not dwell on the past. It’s done. Take responsibility for your actions and future.
#2. “Seek Wisdom” – Never stop learning. Follow leaders. Give back and share what you learn.
#3. “Action” – Control the situation. Inspire others to go forward and they will follow you. You will become a leader.
#4. “I have a Decided Heart” – Passion!! Best way to describe this decision.
#5. “Today, I will be Happy” – Not feeling happy today? Write done everything that you are grateful for and happiness will be yours.
#6. “Forgiveness” – Don’t just forgive others, forgive yourself. Let yourself off the hook! Move forward.
#7. “I will Persist without Exception” – Failure is NOT an option! Do NOT give up! Do not let anything stop you from reaching your goal.

These decisions will never let you down. Always refer back to this list when you ask… “Why me?” You should be asking..”Why not me?” Never again will I blame others for my past, present or future. I am responsible for my own actions and decisions.

I am learning and growing everyday in my life and my internet marketing business. I hope that this enlightens you when making your decisions in your life.

Virginia Wild
Your Guide to Success

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So You Think You Can Succeed in Internet Marketing?

Alright, I’ll admit it. I do watch a little television sometimes. I’m a sucker for reality tv.

One my all time favs is “So You Think You Can Dance”.

Have you ever watched it?

I have a ton respect for the dancers on this show. They are filled with passion, energy, drive, dedication, focus, desire and refuse to let their dreams crumble.

First of all, there’s the auditions. It takes courage to dance in front of an audience. But imagine doing it in front those who judge you. These Judges pick the dancers apart to see if they have what it takes to succeed as a professional dancer.

Now it’s time to go on the stage. The dancer takes a deep breath, feeling his or her heart beating like it’s going to come right of their chest, cold sweats happening and a sudden case of nausea occurs right before they go out there. It’s their opportunity to wow the judges. To control the fear that is taking over their mind and body, they must to alter the conscious mind.

To enable themselves to move forward, they visualize their future as a professional dancer, their dream, and then take that leap to do what they have to do to achieve it.

The stage is where the dancer’s talent shine. Now, each dancer has their own style of dance in which they excel. Take a hip hop dancer, now they are doing ballroom. How about a ballet dancer performing the sizzling salsa dance. My personal favorite is contemporary. These dancers can do anything, in my opinion, because they are open to creative dance and don’t have boundaries.

This applies to internet marketing as well.

As you build your internet marketing business and get yourself out there, remember that you are being watched and judged. Not only for your talents, but for your personality and the value that you have to offer as well. Now, these judges may very well end up being your new team members. So impression the heck of them.

In order to succeed in your internet marketing business, the first thing you must have is a strong “why” you are doing what you do. You must also believe in yourself and have true passion. Always keep your goal in clear vision, stay focused and dedicated.

You too have your own style, but do not be afraid to change your dance now and again. Listen, learn and implement your new found talents. Share your experiences and knowledge, then watch what happens.

The judges may vote you as the next one to really succeed in your internet marketing business.

Virginia Wild
Your Guide to Success

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Dare You to Go Down the Rabbit Hole

I absolutely enjoy watching movies that are filled with hidden hints about making your dreams come true. Such phrases like… “The impossible is possible if you believe”, “You can achieve anything that you set your mind to”, “If you truly believe, it will happen” or “You always have a choice”. These are just a few that I can think of off the top of my head.

Walt Disney was a huge dreamer and believer. If you really think about it, all of his movies are about making dreams come true and becoming the best that you can be.

Take Alice, for example. Look at the adventures that she had after falling down a hole into an extraordinary world that she called Wonderland. Her goal was to get back home, but she had distractions to ignore, battles to fight, obstacles and challenges to overcome first. None of these stopped her from finding her way home. One of the things Alice did to succeed was to think of 6 impossible (so she thought) things that proved to be real and/or true.

Alice had also made great connections, such as The Mad Hatter, Cheshire Cat, Mallymkun (the dormouse), Absolem (the blue caterpillar), The White Rabbit, The White Queen, Tweedidee & Tweedledum, just to name a few. Together they masterminded and everyone become a winner. The Wonderlanders got their world back from The Red Queen and, of course, Alice was able to get back home.

When Alice returned to her world, she implemented the skills, courage, self-confidence and knowledge that she gained during her journey to create a fulfilling life for herself and not do what everyone else expected her to do. That would the called the “norm”. She saw more in herself (her muchness) and didn’t care what the others thought about her decision to live her life the way she chose to live it. Alice was bound for an adventurous life in deed.

I see my continuing journey of my life similar to Alice’s experience. There are many obstacles, challenges, distractions and little battles that I must take head on in order to keep moving forward in my business. Masterminding and surrounding myself with my mentors and others who have or want the same kind of life style is a powerful way to expand myself in my internet marketing and leadership skills required to succeed.

I keep my dream and goal in clear vision and focus so that I don’t loose sight of why I’m doing what I do. I’ve realized that it is now not what I do, but who I actually am.

In the end, just like Alice, I can look back at the phenomenal path that enabled me and my family to have the life style that we deserved.

Now, I dare you to go down the rabbit hole and do the same.

Virginia Wild
Your Guide to Success

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Don’t be a Cop-Out.

Got your attention, didn’t I?
What If I told you there were only four kinds of people in the world?

“Cop-outs” – These are people who don’t have any goals and have very little drive. They just want to remain the same out rut doing nothing different to change their lives or the lives of anyone around them. They probably spend their time watching mindless hours of television. You know the type. Don't be a Copout

“Hold-outs” – These are people who would like to be more, do more and have more, but are afraid. Allowing their fears to control them and never get started with anything. They’re big on hoping and wishing instead of doing.

“Drop-outs” – These are the people who take action and get started, but just never finish. They don’t stay committed and they don’t continue building relationships. They have all the potential, but not the results because they “buy into” their own excuses time and time again. They don’t stay focused or determined and jump to next opportunity that they find, failing again and again, blaming the previous venture. This happens quite a lot with internet marketers.

Finally, the “All-outs” – These are the people that get results. Doesn’t matter what business they’re in, brick and mortar, real estate, insurance or internet marketing. A common characteristic of all “All-outs” if they’re very clear on what they want and find a way to win. They take full responsibility and never point a finger. No excuses, no stories…only solutions.

Which of these four do you think are? Think very carefully about it. In fact, take the time to really watch your actions and be honest with yourself as to whether you are a “Cop-out,” a “Hold-out,” a “Drop-out” or an “All-out”.

Once you know, that’s half the battle. Most of us sleep walk through life and never take the time to analyze themselves. Don’t let it happen to you.

Virginia Wild
Your Guide to Success

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Going for the Gold with Your Internet Marketing Business?

Have you ever wondered how an Olympic athlete wins the Gold? Go for the Gold! Internet Marketing TrainingIt’s not a huge secret but it’s a powerful one.

First of all, it does take years of training and dedication in their chosen sport.
Second, they must be focused and eliminate distractions.
Third, and most important, is the desire and faith.

Of course, these sports are extremely physical but mindset is also important. Without the focus, desire, determination and faith, they are lost and have no chance of winning the bronze, silver and ultimately, the gold.

The winners actually visualize themselves standing on the podium with their country’s flag and national anthem playing in the background. Not everyone understands the true meaning of faith. Described in the dictionary, faith means trust, belief, belief without proof, religion, promise, loyalty, constancy. These descriptions must be embedded into your subconscious mind in order for you to have true faith.

Faith alone doesn’t cut it either. You must also have emotion attached to your faith. Without the emotion, faith can fade away. Napoleon Hill, the author of Think and Grow Rich, states that thoughts which are mixed with any of the feelings or emotions constitute a magnetic force which attracts, from the vibrations of the ether (forces of the universe), other similar or related thoughts.

Have you wanted or believed in something so badly that it was all you could think about? You dreamt, ate, walked, talked about it consistently?
This is what you should be feeling about your Internet Marketing Business.

You must have the faith and emotion in order for your visions to come true. Take a pen a paper and write down these five definite and practical steps.

1. Think of the exact amount of money you desire. Don’t just say to yourself that you want make lots of money. Come up with a fixed amount and write it down.
2. Figure out what you intent to give in return for your riches. This would a product or service. You can’t get something for nothing.
3. Pick a date that you intend to achieve this goal. Without a fixed date in writing, your goal is just a dream and may never be accomplished without a deadline.
4. Lay out a plan to carry out your desire. Start doing things immediately, even if you are ready or not. Start taking action.
5. Read your written statement two or three time a day. Doing so will put these steps into your subconscious mind and your gold will become a reality. Working on your personal development daily is key to your golden success.

Let’s not forget that you must also make sacrifices in your everyday life to get the gold. Just like the champion athletes have scheduled training sessions, get plenty of rest, stay healthy, and cut out all distraction to stay focused.

Only you know what you must cut out to make time to work on your internet marketing business. Get rid of distractions, such and the television and phone. Also, set a definite daily schedule listing your tasks, time to spend on them and stick you it. If you have other distractions in your home, such as family, let them know that you are busy so you can concentrate on your business tasks. If you have pets, lock them out of your office space.

Now you are ready to start implementing your steps and take your internet marketing business to the gold. Get on the podium with Internet Marketing Skill

I’ll be cheering you on when I see you standing on that podium.

Virginia Wild
Your Guide to Success

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Today is April 1st, 2010 and I am Making $25,000 Per Mth!

That’s right, today is April 1st, 2010 April 1 2010 marks the calendarand I am making $25,000 a month!

My husband and I have both quit our dead end jobs and are living a life style that most just dream about.

This is how I did it….

#1 – I stopped procrastinating and began to take action.
#2 – I found a true mentor with success and followed everything that they had done to become successful.
#3 – I read books, listened to audio recording, attended training calls & webinars and sponged up anything and everything to educate myself. Then I took action and implemented all that knowledge into a striving, successful business for myself.
#4 – I believed in myself.
#5 – I became a member of a mastermind group with people of the same mindset and who could teach me more…of everything.

You can be having the same conversation and telling your incredible testimony. Go now and get a pen and paper. I’ll wait here for you.

You’re back…good. Now follow the same steps as written above with your own affirmation.
See yourself in future and speak today as if the future was today. Give yourself a date, set your goal and put down a number of steps describing how you got “here”. As though someone was asking you…”Wow! How did you do that?”
Read this to yourself 2-3 times a day. The steps that you have written down that got you to where you are will fall into place, because these are the action steps you took to become the success that you are today (April 1st).

Get it…?

Live today like a leader! You are successful! Your dreams are becoming a reality! You have created a better a life style for you and your family!

Look in the mirror. What do you see? See...you are a leader!
You see a leader! The King/Queen of the jungle!

Don’t wait. Take Action NOW! Don’t “should” all over yourself come April 1st, 2010.

Become one of the 3% of the world’s population as Top Producing Entrepreneur!

To YOUR Success in 2010!! All the Best for 2010!

Virginia Wild
Your Guide to Success

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Stop the Merry-Go-Round! I Want Off!

Stop the Merry-Go-Round and Let Me Off!

Are you leaving home in the dark only to return in the dark just to bring home that pay check? Not being there for your family? I mean, really being there, not just providing.

Perhaps you’re living pay check to pay check with too much month left over after the money is gone. Creditors calling and asking for money. You then pay one card just to borrow that payment back to pay another….balances surely don’t go down that way.

Or maybe you like to travel, but always say to yourself “Someday” or “Next Year”. Either you don’t have the funds at the moment or you can’t get the time off from the J.O.B.

How about that classic car, motorcycle, boat or cottage you’ve always wanted, but can only look at it through the glass window of the showroom or in a brochure.

Let me off this merry-go-roundPlease. let me off this merry-go-round! Round and round and round we go. The same things day in and day out. It’s a vicious circle. It’s not even slowing down so that you can jump off.

I understand everything that I’ve just said because I’ve been there and done that.

Missed out on family fun. Traveling to and from the JOB in the dark. Daytime spent inside a stuffy office staring at a computer and a wall. I got to know every crack in that wall after 20 years. I wanted more out of life, so I pretended that I could pay for the material things that I thought I needed. Guess what happened….maxed out credit cards. Then borrowing from Peter to pay Paul…so to say. Waiting for a raise from the boss at the job so I could have more, But, then more taxes came off my check so that meant no extra cash. This was a lose, lose situation. I felt like I was continuously banging my head against the wall but not knocking any sense into it.

I had to do something to stop this merry-go-round. A thought crept came to my head, I guess from banging it so much. I started to walk in the opposite direction that the merry-go-round was spinning in. Everyone else on it was tugging at me to stop and turn back around, but I kept going in other direction. I began to see things in a different light. New visions were coming in my mind and I began to walk faster. Wonderful world of internet marketing
I then stumbled onto the incredible world of internet marketing. Imagine working from home with your own successful home based business! I was on my way to finding a new path that was filled with light and wonder.

My first venture was with a health and wellness MLM business. I truly still believe in the products and the company, however, I felt as though I was babysitting adult children. Building a downline large enough to keep my path lit was next to impossible for a newbie like me. Without the proper guidance and training the lights go dim and sometimes go out for good. But I am determined to follow my path and keep it bright. I knew that there had to better way to continue my journey and that would be something we all need to keep ourselves growing.

I began to research and follow successful people with a strong torch to keep their path bright and clear. There must be something that these people are doing right. Then I realized what that was. It was knowledge. Education is the key to success in anything that one chooses. There are many internet marketing companies out there that promise a get rich quick trick, but that’s exactly what is. A trick to get your money. Another word for these tricks is scams. Beware, if sounds to good to be true, it usually is.

During my studies of these successful entrepreneurs, everything began to change for me. I found a way to stop the merry-go-around, jump off and enable myself to head straight down my path with a well lit torch and plenty of fuel to keep it burning the rest of my life. I found a system that works! A real top tier direct sales internet marketing business that is unique, genuine, has a proven system that actually has up to date, on going, professional training and support from the same people that I was studying. Imagine, I am working with the people that I envied.

My path will have many turns and obstacles along the way, but nothing is stopping me now. I am living a life of new challenges and excitement everyday. My family time is now quality time. I see the day light while standing outside, not through an office window. I am traveling more and my debt is taming down. I don’t have that car I want yet, but that’s just around the next bend of my path.

If you are looking to jump off that merry-go-round, do it. Just do it now. Don’t wait for it slow to down or be safe to jump. Take the leap today and light your own path.

I am reaching my hand out to you. Grab it and I will show you how to get started by introducing you to a phenomenal system that Give me your hand.  I will guide you in the right direction.
will enable you to keep your torch lit.

Virginia Wild

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2010 is Just Around the Corner. What’s Your New Year Looking Like?

With 2010 coming up, most people are enjoying the holidays and looking back on what they have or have not accomplished in 2009.

What are you doing? Celebrating your success or still pondering on what you should have done? happy new year 2010

NOW is the time to start your New Years Resolution for 2010. Prepare yourself now so that others searching for a solution to make their financial future bright will be able to find you.

Full training on marketing, self branding, PPC, wealth generation and loving life is right at the c1ick of your mouse… http://www.7figurereality.com

Join me and my team on the adventure of your life! I don’t work with everyone. You must motivated, determined, have the right mindset and the desire to help others. If this sounds like you….welcome!

Let’s make 2010 YOUR year!!

Your guide to success,

Virginia Wild

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Burn those Bridges Behind You!

When do most of us take action or start to live? It’s when we face death. Do or die situations. Life is precious and we seem to recognize that when tragedy hits. “I’m going to enjoy all the things that I haven’t given myself time to do.” “I’m going to live life to it’s fullest.” “I’m going to be kind to everyone and forgive my enemies.” “I’m going to reach my goal!”

WAKE-UP! Live NOW! Do those things NOW! Be kind and forgive others and yourself NOW! Do what it takes to reach that goal as an entrepreneur in a home based business NOW! DO or DIE! Burn the Bridges behind you and go Forward.

It’s time to burn the bridges that got you HERE! Don’t look or go back. Go Forward! Take ACTION! Listen, Learn, Share and Implement from those who have the success that you are seeking. Follow their system, trust their system and others will follow and trust YOU! Contact me and I’ll introduce you to a real business model where you will receive these values.

Cut the ties that bind you. Surround yourself with like-minded people. Set a date for your goal to be reached and stick to it. If your goal is to fire your boss, for example, write your letter of resignation, with integrity, and date it. Give to someone that will hand deliver the sealed envelope to your boss on the date you have written. No turning back now! Then, do you think you would do everything to reach that goal? DO or DIE!

You must have PASSION and LOVE for your goal. Without the passion or love, it’s just a DREAM. You may miss your mark at first, but Do NOT give up. We are what we think about. If we fear or think FAILURE, that is where we are headed. Think success, happiness, health….whatever you “want” in your life. DO NOT think about what you DON’T want. The universe hears what you are concentrating about. Start Climbing Today!

What will it take for YOU to reach YOUR goal? So get up off your behind and burn those bridges! TAKE ACTION! NOW!

Virginia Wild

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Death Rates Decrease as Job Losses Increase.

It’s true. The mortality rates decline when job losses increase and the economy takes a downturn. Contrary to what one would probably think is that physical or mental health would become worse leading to death by poor health or suicide as the jobs disappear and the economy crashes, per say.

Studies over the past 9 years have shown that mortally goes up with economic highs and goes down with contractions and not the opposite as one would expect.

In this writers option, I believe that when things get tough, our mindset changes. The focus shifts to the important things in life. Such as family, relationships, health and living for today.

When the economy is booming, the focus is on deadlines, commuting, bosses, co-workers, clock watching to the end of the work day, stressing Stop worrying about unimportant "stuff"about what needs to be done inside and outside of the work place. The worry is on stuff. Stuff that really it’s important. Stress levels increase therefore causing high blood pressure, high cholesterol (from not having good eating habits), substance addiction, depression, strokes, heart attacks and in some cases death.

At times when there is a decrease in the economy and the focus is on the important elements in life, the stress level goes down. Family becomes whole again. There is time to look after our health with proper diet and exercise, which lowers cholesterol and blood pressure. People help the community they live in and in return the community gives back. Substance abuse is replaced by spirituality, whether that be God or some other higher power from within. Depression becomes happiness and sense of wellbeing. Overall better health and wellness decreases the chances of stroke and heart attacks lower the death rate.

Enjoy LifeLife is a gift and worth living to the fullest. We should always keep a positive mindset no matter what is thrown our way. This will enable us to live happy, healthy and fulfilling lives.

To Your Good Health and Happiness!

Virginia Wild

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